Shanti (name changed) is a 15 year old housemaid in one of the very renowned
society in Bangalore. Her parents have so many children that they cannot afford
education. Financial burden forces her to get employed in multiple households.
Working in an up market apartment society ensures decent pay and in most cases
assures respectable behavior from the employers. But what lay in store for
Shanti was unfortunate. She was employed by a DINK (Double Income No Kid) couple
and whenever the wife was away the husband took full advantage of the young
maid. He forced her to watch adult movies along with him. He often took of his
clothes and spoke vulgarly to this young girl. At the end of each day he paid
her Rs 50 and asked her to keep mum. The girl was terrified but could not confess
to her parents in fear of losing her job. When she started showing signs of
depression and phobia, with much intervention the incident came to light. When
Shanti’s parents confronted the couple the matter worsened, his wife refused to
believe the maid and the husband to cover up this incident lodged a false theft
complaint against the girl. Shanti is a victim of menace caused by a closet
pervert.
A closet pervert is superficially normal to the world but deep down will hide his immoral or pervert tendencies. Subconsciously the person is aware that the sort of hidden acts are shameful. Such people can be from any walk of our society. They may be around our homes, colleges or in offices (just about anywhere). But we have to learn to avoid getting victimized by them.
Most of these people are cowards. When such a situation arises be brave and just raise an alarm at the spot and yell several times. This always does the trick. If you have a passive body language in such a situation it will only encourage the person, keep a strong body language that can be pretty uninviting. If you don't feel you are in physical danger, adopt a strong voice and posture and tell them to go away.
A ny more strategies are welcome! Please give in your thoughts of dealing
with these people.
A closet pervert is superficially normal to the world but deep down will hide his immoral or pervert tendencies. Subconsciously the person is aware that the sort of hidden acts are shameful. Such people can be from any walk of our society. They may be around our homes, colleges or in offices (just about anywhere). But we have to learn to avoid getting victimized by them.
Most of these people are cowards. When such a situation arises be brave and just raise an alarm at the spot and yell several times. This always does the trick. If you have a passive body language in such a situation it will only encourage the person, keep a strong body language that can be pretty uninviting. If you don't feel you are in physical danger, adopt a strong voice and posture and tell them to go away.
pardon my language.....bengali te bolchi..ami sotti bolchi....."dhor salake morer mathai mar sala ke gache bedhe".guli kore mar etai upai amr mot e...........lekha ta darun hoyeche short and slappy
ReplyDelete